SO my hubs tells me not to worry about it….”he’s a two-year old” – “he doesn’t really mean it”…BUT my son never wants mommy when daddy is home. If he falls, he runs to daddy, even though mommy has magic kisses. In the middle of the night, when he is scared, it’s daddy’s name that he calls. It makes me sad and when he wipes my kisses off, my feelings do get hurt. I know that he really does love me and it is all a stage, but as I have been watching the Disney movies with him lately I have noticed…where are all the moms?
Finding Nemo….she died at the very beginning.
Beauty and the Beast….mom died as well
Cinderella….step mom is EVIL!
WHAT THE HECK????? My son needs movies with strong moms!!!!
What are your thoughts?
It is 6am, I am starting the “wake up like you are going to work” phase. I should have started this feat a week ago. I kept justifying it with….but I was up with the baby. I realized this morning -she aint gonna start sleeping through the night by next week. So here I am, baby fed, coffee made, almost awake!
This summer has been so great. I have learned several things about being a stay at home mom of two this summer.
- I get to interact with my kiddos on various levels. – Jax enjoys watching a trillion episodes of Backyardigans everyday and Maddox enjoys being connected to the boob all day!
- It has been so ridiculously hot outside…therefore we play outside from 730 to 900am…if you are my neighbor and we have woken you up…Sorry but I have to get my kid some outside time and fresh air sometime during the day before he melts from the intense heat. Jax could go outside and play in the 100+ degree weather all day, but momma can’t.
- Just when you are ready to get a project started or just sit down to breath….either the baby starts crying for food or diaper change OR your two-year has an upset stomach and vomits hour digested milk all over you and the floor —> BTW this event will guarantee the baby to cry and want your undivided attention.
- I have NO me time. How do stay at home moms find time to do anything? Everyone keeps telling me “sleep when the baby sleeps” UMMM yeah right, these people do not realize that an active toddler doesn’t sleep that much. When I finally get Jax down, I have to do laundry, sweep, mom, shower, dishes, my homework. Just as I relax and close my eyes, the baby is up and ready to eat. Ok, baby fed and down…commence relaxation time….nope, Jax is up. Oh well, I can function on very little sleep. This is when I got creative. “oh honey you want to watch Backyardagians for the 1,345,745 time today, no problem….come lay on the couch with mommy and cuddle” (and that is when I sleep for approximately 26 minutes until I am woken up with fingers in my eyes telling me that his “TD show is over”
- Just because I yell louder doesn’t necessarily mean that my toddler will listen…however if I pick up my flip-flop, I have his undivided attention! I promise the flip-flop has not made connection with his buns that many times but he gets it now….”it” being, mommy aint playing anymore.
- I can have an entire conversation with the moose and ostrich that live in my entry hall. We talk to them everyday. They are our friends, and thank goodness mommy doesn’t have to clean up after them too.
- I have become creative in answering the question ‘why?’
- Potty training should not be pushed when there is a new-born in the house. I know that my child will not attend kindergarten in diapers, therefore, we will not force the issue with “big boy” undies that he can pee right out of—> another event that will guarantee the baby to start crying and want your undivided attention
- When the hubs works all day and comes home to say he’s had a long day and needs to relax —> sorry bubs you have just entered Chaotic town and I am taking a vacation in the form of a shower…by myself, no 2-year-old with toys in tow….and it might just take me 20-30 minutes. Welcome home honey!!!
- At the end of the day when all are ready to crash, there is nothing sweeter than a 2-year-old saying his prayers…God bless mommy…and then he includes everyone else, including the Backyardignins.
I absolutely adore my children. They are my world, along with the hubs of course…his antics are a whole other blog. 🙂 The most important lesson I learned this summer is that I was not built to be a stay at home mom. I give kudos to those women who can do it! I do believe that it is the most underpaid job in the world. I am a working mom who misses her children dearly during the day and can’t wait to rush home to see them…all the while keeping my sanity by not being a stay at home mom.
SO….I know that I said that I would blog more and I really did mean it. It just amazes me how life just jumps right in and gets in the way. One of my New Years’ resolutions (that I don’t intend to break) will be to write more. So we shall see.
So far 2011 has been pretty good to me. I enjoyed a much-needed break from work and spent the days with son and hubs. We did a whole lot of nothing for 2 weeks….it was glorious. Now that school is back in session, Jax (and I) have adjusted to me leaving the house every morning. Man….I can’t imagine how hard it will be to leave the house when there are two precious angels chanting…Mama…Mama…Mama as I head out the door, tears in check. That will be another bridge to cross when I get there.
We did find out last week that our new bundle of joy is a little girl, Maddox Kristine. The hubs and I are very excited…and when the first news excitement wore off a bit, we realized…OH MY GOODNESS….we are having a girl. That means: dress up, make-up, boys coming over to pick her up for dates…the worry set in a bit. It’s weird because I didn’t have those worries at all when I was pregs with Jax. At least she will have a protective big brother to help watch out for her….Poor thing, her social life will stink! Score one for mom and dad!!! (just kidding…kind of)
I wish you all a productive and prosperous 2011…..as I conclude I want to also share another of my resolutions that I hope to keep. That is furthering my jewelry business. This really is a fantastic company and I really would like to see myself succeed. When you get a chance, take a look at the products, they are beautiful and very affordable. http://www.stelladot.com/ammiehill