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Correcting behavior before things get CRAZY!!!

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I have been off work less than a week for my summer hiatis…thanks to the awesome world of education. In that short amount of time, I can’t count how many times Monkey and Buggy have argued, yelled, whined and just plain disobeyed what I had to say.

I did what every resourceful mother does…head straight to Pinterest. With several ideas from fellow Pinners, I came up with a mesh of ¬†family calendar, behavior chart and reward jar. It was actually quite simple after my visit to the local Wal-Mart and Michaels’ Craft Store.

 

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I used:

  • Dry Erase/Magnetic Calendar Board
  • Fun Neon dry Erase markers
  • craft paper in green, yellow, red and black
  • Silver permanent marker
  • packing tape
  • mini wooden craft sticks
  • magnetic buttons with foam adhesive on one side
  • markers
  • Mason jar
  • sticky letters
  • scissors
  • pom-pom in assorted colors

 

BEHAVIORAL CHART

I used the mason jar lid to trace my circles for the behavioral chart. The stop light system worked so well for Monkey in pre-school…I just added black for a harsher punishment.

Each color was labeled with the silver marker and then secured to the calendar with clear packing tape.

  • Green – “good job!” every day starts off on green
  • yellow – “uh-oh” – time for a chat and short time out…discuss that behavior and how to correct it, what is desired and what is undesired
  • red – “on-no” – consequence based on behavior, this may warrant a longer time-out, spanking, or grounding
  • black – “yikes” – Mr. Sad time, a not so fun spanking that is a last straw. Fortunately my kids are just as intimidated by the idea of Mr. Sad ( wooden spoon with a sad face) than actually receiving Mr. Sad

 

The craft sticks were added to the magnetic buttons and labeled with kiddos names.

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REWARD JAR

A Ball mason jar, found at Michaels’ is what I chose to use as the reward jar. Every evening at bedtime, if the kiddos are still on green a large pom-pom is added to the jar.

Throughout the day, smaller pom-poms are added based on good deeds, being respectful, being nice to each other, etc.

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With my kids ages, 5 and 3, I decided to have them work collaboratively on a jar. When they reach the goal they get to receive a special reward:

  • trip to yogurt shop
  • new DVD
  • mini shopping trip for a new toy
  • other special treats mom and dad can come up with

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So, now that only thing we can do is PRAY that this works.

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Please share your ideas, comments, or questions!